Gwendolyn (diagnosed at age 27, stage I)
I lost my baby sister to a recurrence of Ovarian Cancer and Hepatitis. She was 44. My lifelong friend, Aliyah suffered through four recurrences of ovarian cancer. She left a husband and four children, including 13 year-old twin girls. This just shouldn’t happen. We have lost many members from the Ovarian Cancer Network. I refuse to allow folks to continue calling this disease "The Silent Killer!" No, it speaks loud and clear!
At age 28, after suffering physically and emotionally, I was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer. For a year, my complaints of severe pain, weakness and irregular menstrual cycles, were classified as "Young Mother’s Syndrome". In other words, all in my head! I experienced bouts with nausea, diarrhea and constipation. I lost weight. I had fainting spells due to extreme fatigue and blood loss. I was told a past eating disorder had returned. I knew this wasn’t true. My menstrual cycle continued to be irregular and the pains were unbearable.
A doctor from Columbia was assigned to the hospital at Ft. Riley, KS. He saw me in the ER, admitted me for a laparoscopy. A cyst on my right ovary had ruptured. A second cyst was suctioned. A biopsy revealed Stage 1 Ovarian Cancer. At this stage, there is a 90% survival rate with treatment. I refused treatment, because it was discovered I was pregnant. I was not going to abort a child I was praying for. By the Grace of God, my baby and I survived.